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I live with simplicity, though the athmosphere itself is kinda pushing me, one thing for sure is i am an easygoing type! i just wanna express my self different from our fake society !! see the "other side", see the boundaries and do the things beyond it, total and compromise to stands for myself, what i do believe!

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well after all I am just an ordinary being with all the gifts, possible flaws and sloppiness to live my life to become someone meaningfull for others!

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hey, im 15/f and i found out today that a little girl i use to know, is going to have a baby, she's 12!!.. her boyfriend is like 16. anyways, she still smokes and drinks and such, see i use to know her and she wasnt into that stuff when i knew her, im not at all in the smoking drinking kinda thing. so what all can be wrong with her baby when she has it?.. she smokes/drinks and shes 12. what all can happen to the baby?. thanks

well, age of 12 with all of those 20s age stress (kids with adults problems) IS able to destroy herself and harm others if she doesn't get an attention, loving care from her surroundings.
zillions of married couple cannot have a baby of their own. unlike them. its better for the baby to be taking care of other adults (her family, relatives) in order to save the baby's status before the government (social affairs division)will taking the baby away from it's parents.
you doesn't have to give her advice but become a good listeners, show her your attention and persuade her to do something positive will help her away from the bad habits.

she is too fragile, so becarefull with your attitude on her.

if she cannot fix herself with the help of others, i'm sure that soon ger baby will grown without her
love and become the next 'bad guy'

please help her carefully.
God bless your kindness.

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(Rating: 5) i dont talk to her anymore, see shes kinda not poor, but dont give a damn how she looks or whatever, and she has two older sisters, that pretty much can kick anyone's ass lol, and i dont want to get involved with them, im going to try to talk to her one friend that is in my grade, but i dont think that will help.. thanks
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