about

My name is Elly and I am 18 years old. I live in Michigan and I graduated High School in '07. I'm currently attending a great college, but I'm home for the summer. It's too nice outside to sit on the computer all day, so I might not be as active on here as I would like.

I guess a good way to describe me is experienced. I've discovered a lot about life and I can't wait to discover more... while having fun at the same time of course! ...BUT, like everyone, I have experienced things in life that I rather wish I hadn't. And I also feel that those bad experiences qualify me to help others with this column.

I have been in a serious relationship for over two and a half years now. I personally know that love is a difficult thing to nurture. It takes a lot of work. Life is NOT a fairytale where two people can simply love each other and everything will just fall into place. It doesn't work like that in the real world.

People on Advicenators are starting to disappoint me. Everyone says "ooh I want to help! I've experienced EVERYTHING!" Yet, I can't tell you how many questions I see with answers like "you could have googled that" or "we're not going to do your homework" or "I'm so sick of 'wow does he like me?!' questions." I used to sort of be like that, but now I realize how hypocritical that is. If I know the answer to a question, I will answer to the best of my ability without making you feel stupid for asking it in the first place. Advicenators is going to turn into a pretty nasty place if people just keep brushing off questions like that.

Rate or don't rate. I really don't care. But don't give me a 1 just because I tell you something you don't want to hear. Go to your mom for advice if you want sugarcoated answers.

I can give excellent advice on:
relationships/sex
friendship
family issues
anything about animals (i worked at a vet for several years)
college

advice

So basically I had the worst birthday last year and this year I decided to celebrate my birthday alone. I'm not sad anyways, I'm pretty much a hermit.

Anyways I'm just asking what would be some indoor activities to do to celebrate my birthday?

It's in two weeks and I'm turning fifteen.

I already have a DVD marathon planned because I'm getting 2 DVDs of my favourite tv show for my birthday.

Thanks guys =]

Just do nice things for yourself. Go to the mall and buy yourself something you've been wanting to get.

Take a long bubble bath while listening to your favorite music. Read a book that you enjoy.

Lie in the sun, listen to music, and relax.

Just do things that make you happy and relaxed. Turn off your cell phone so you won't be bothered during the day.

[view]

(Rating: 5) Thanks, good idea :]
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker