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ive been going out with this guy for 2 months and its been okay but hes in a different grade and i hardly get to talk to him. my mom took my phone away before i went out with him and i still havnt gotten it back but he has a cell phone. the problem is my parents wont let me talk on the house phone so i have to call him when my parents arent around which is hardly ever! the problem is that every time i get to call him(which is hardly ever)he ethier has his phone off or he wants me to call him back. the longest phone conversation was maby 16 min and then he said to call him tomoro.every conversation we have ends with him saying can you call me later and its so annoying.i called him today and he asked could he call me later and i told him he couldnt because it was my house phone then he told me to call him later and i asked him when and he said he didnt care just to call him later. i was sooo mad that he would say he didnt care. i understand sometimes your doing something important and arent able to talk on the phone but this is EVERY time i call him! i hardly know him because i can never talk to him for more than 2 min.
Thats a problem right there him not talking to you very long or saying that he doenst care. Well if you guys are having a good conversation and then he says oh can you call me back or later. Then that would be good, meaning he's still interested in you. Maybe he's just trying to say 'sorry I'm not interested, or I'm going to break up with you.' But you never really know until you find out. So why dont you try to call him and say
"(his name) Hey I have been feeling a little sad, that we never talk that long or not at all. It's been 2 freaking months. Don't you think I have been worrying about this? I would like to know whats up with you and me and I would really want to know when would be a better time to call since you are always busy."
Just say that. Maybe when he said he didnt care, it just came out of his mouth and he didnt really mean it just then. I bet you he's feeling sorry for himself for doing this to you. Everything will be better if you just talk to him about it. It will clear up all this and you can have a much longer phone conversations from now on I promise. I have been through this too :)
(Rating: 5) thanx