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i started babysitting this nine year old girl every wednsday and friday from four to eleven about three month ago. she goes to bed at eight thirty but her older brother gets home around nine thirty or ten from work but i stay until his parents get home so they can pay me. he's 27. he started hitting on me the first wednsday i started babysitting. then about two weeks into it, the fourth time i babysat, i was washing dishes. he came up behind me, put his arms around my waist and started kissing my neck while he was putting his hands up my shirt. he said that it was time for me to stop 'teasing' him. i don't think i was teasing him, i dont dress revealingly or anything and i usually have something on my clothes by the time he gets home.
But anyway, i told him we shouldn't do anything, but he is really cute and it did feel good, but i didn't want to get caught by his parents. i didnt want them to fire me. well we didn't hae sex but he did rub me through my jeans and he pressed his penis into my back. but the next week he came home early and we did have sex and we have been keepingit a secret since then and now i want to stop because it makes me feel guilty. my bff said i shouldn't beaccuse he took advantage of me because he's the adult and he told me that he would tell his parents that i hit on him and tried to sleep with him if ii stopped. i don't know what to do i want to keep babysitting carly because shes kind of attached to me, but i dont want to be pressured when her brothre comes home.pleae help me. (link)
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You should definately stop and if he keeps bothering you then tell someone... even if you are scared. More than likely he isn't going to run around telling people because with your age difference that is considered rape even if it is consensual. This isn't your fault. He is taking advantage of a young girl and he could be in serious trouble for that. I wouldn't even want to babysit for people with a son like that. Good luck!
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Should i go to the police, or who should i go to because i dont want to disappoint my parents.
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