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okay, so i'm definitely going to say no to him, but what EXACTLY should i say so i don't come off as a rude, insincere bitch? i mean honestly, i want him to get the point. so i want to say something like:

look, we've already been through this... i really don't feel that way about you right now. i'm sorry but i can't go with you.

i am getting SO annoyed with this guy!

hun you already know what to do! truth like surgery hurts you knw......

as for what to say just say what you think you'd want to here if a guy was to let you down in a reverse situation.....


don't be mean just be straight forward.... something along the lines of: hey (name) listen we need to talk (sit him down somewhere..... dont touch hand or anything!!!) i really like you as a friend... but thats just it. i really am flattered and i think your an amazing guy but i really like someone else and right now all i could think of is him i am sure you know how that feels.... you should be with someone who shares mutual feelings and so should i and i don't think "us" is it...
i am sorry.... (the only time you are allowed to be physical- give him a hug and leave)

hope i helped

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much

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