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Hey, I'm Anthony. I am a sophmore in high school. I play the accordion, and music is my passion. I also love photography. I'm here mainly because people tell me I give great advice, and sometimes I need a little too. Thanks. Hope I can help you.

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I had a really bad reputation at school, until 8th grade, when I got "pretty".
During this year, I liked this popular guy, and he liked me back.
But, he was too ashamed to admit it. I'm letting him slide for this one, because in all truth, if the weirdest kid in school liked me as well, then I probably wouldn't put that out in the forefront.
He also made a lot of excuses. He went out with this blond, model type girl, that he absolutely HATED, because she was obsessed with him. And, when I asked him straight up if he liked me, he'd go "I don't want a girlfriend, because you have to buy them things".

Stupid crap like that.

Now, this year, things are different. I'm well-liked by most people (except his friends, who despise me.)

Earlier this year, he would try and talk to me, and become friends with me again.

Now, he doesn't really try. He just stares at me, and when I look back, he has this really hard look on his face.

I'm pretty sure he regrets his decision, but why won't he just say so?

I don't know why I still like him, after all he's done to me, but I do.

I just want him to talk to me. To say sorry. To tell me what's going on. This "issue" has been going on for two years now, and it's about to go into three if I don't do something soon.

Last two weeks of school.

Guys, what's his problem? What should I do, or say?

Ok, so I'm a guy so I pretty much know what his problem is...

Guys hate admiting that they are wrong. Personally, I could careless, I mean I'm not afraid or ashamed of admiting that i was wrong. But, thats probably what his problem is. If you really want an answer from him, and if you really want to settle this with him, chances are that you are probably going to have to confront him first. I know that may suck for you, but that is just the way some guys are, they could be the biggest jocks, but they are just scared to admit that they're wrong. So, that's what I'd do. Confront him first, ask him whats up with your "issue" and see where it goes from there.

Hope I've Helped!

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(Rating: 5) Okay, haha. I'm scared though.

We literally haven't talked in about 6 months.

Wouldn't it be strange if I just went up to him and said "Hii"
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