Member Since: April 25, 2007
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Last Update: May 31, 2007
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Ok. There probaly is someone with the same problem, but please dont tell me that. Im kind of in a hurry. My bestfriend is a guy. I hang out with him everyday and he even walks me to work everyday. I like him a lot, more than a friend, but I dont know how to tell him that. His best friend, who is also a really good friend of mine, is already aware of it. I am a 16 yr. old girl. The thing is, lets say he does like me back if i tell him. He is 15. I want to try to see if it works out, but I dont want to take the risk of everything being akward and losing him as a friend completely. All my old guy friends that I went out with ended up not staying friends cause things just got too akward. And plus since I am turning 17 soon, it's kind of a big deal for me. I kind of want to keep it a secret until we know its going to work between us. How can I tell him that if he does like me back? And all his friends are all friends of mine. Its hardly ever I get a crush. Basically guys think of me as one of the guys most of the time. And I am a tomboy. I do skateboard, and have a huge habit of spitting. Im afraid hell see me as that and nothing more. I barely hang out with girls and if I do, it usually ends up bad. I dont know why. Can you help me with that to. Please help me with these problems!! (link)
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Ok it seems like a big deal now (the age difference) but it doesnt have to be. Older couples (like in the 20s) always go out with way older poeple or young. it doesnt really matter...as long as he doesnt act immature then you shouldnt worry about the age. Now if it doesnt work out then since all your friends are his friends then you 2 will be putting all your friends in the middle of it. You shouldnt worry about that either cuz if it doesnt work out and all of the friends are hanging out...you 2 will want to talk if your together and not ignore eachother so youll work things out. But it seems like your possitve about him so try it...worry about the problems later(which there porbably wont be big problems anyways)
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