About NiceGirl4Ever
Hello, I'm just your plain average hard working 16 year old girl. I have a job, and I do theatre, and choir after school. I'm a really nice person, and I usually give amazing advice so my friends say, and all of them. So, with the time I have I'll try to help the best I can.
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Gender: Female
Age: 16
Member Since: April 21, 2007
Answers: 17
Last Update: July 9, 2007
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I am 16 and a junior going into my senior year.
I am homeschooled and I have also recently skipped a grade.
I'm afraid to graduate, I don't want to be considered an adult. I am afraid to grow up, I don't think I can handle the responsebility yet.
I am also having problems deciding on what I would like to do with myself for the rest of my life. Universities, jobs, where to live, wether I want to run away from my parents/past and never see them again as soon as I am old enough or not, etc.
Someone give me some encouraging words?
*I am being picky this time; I don't want some 'know-it-all' fifteen year old girl that has raging hormones telling me what universities to check out or how I should probably see a psychiatrist. I want an adult with maybe a few suggestions for my troubles. Maybe a quote I could remember to keep myself going.
...because right now, I just don't feel like hanging on.
ok. I'm 16 also, although i'm a sophomore becoming a junior. I'm already looking into colleges and I'm having a difficult dicision too, because I like so make different things. what you need to figure out is what you like to do, and what colleges offer it.
You really don't want to go like half way across the country away from your parents, you might get homesick. but you don't want to live at home, so safe distance anywhere from 30 minutes to 5 or so hours.
And growing up is difficult, I know. I was forced to grow up too fast when my grandmother died, I was 11. and you can handle the responsibility just believe in yourself and you can do anything.
I guess a quote you could go by, well, a book, go read Oh The Places You'll Go by Dr. Seuss.
"not all who wander are lost"
i hope that helps
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(Rating: 5)
Didn't mean to rate you a '1' at first, I meant to do that to the girl above you. I liked that quote alot and I'll totally use it. You were alot more encouraging than the pissy little girls in here that like to take shit personally and attack me.
Thanks :]
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