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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

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My boyfriend & I have been dating for a Year & we didn't have sex until we were dating for 8 months & then we finally did...I have had a kid & I have some concerns...I have never had an orgasim & I have had sex a few times but I was just wondering could there be something wrong with me? Or am I just not doing something right. I know this question sounds stupid but my boyfriend & I tried to have sex again last night & it was like it was a waste of both of our time because neither one of us got off..within the 6 or 7 times we have done it my boyfriend either went limp or we stopped because it wasn't working & wasn't doing anything for either one of us but out of those times 1 of them my boyfriend got off & I felt like I was going to but I never got to find out because he came before I could & he was a virgin before me & him ever had sex & neither one of us basically know what we are doing, but is there something I can do that will help me have an orgasim because I am at a loss..& whoever answer's this & isn't sarcastic I will rate High. Thank you

try on top, that why your in controll, find a place that feels good to you, and just go at it.. not to be mean, but forget about him for that time, and just try to make yourself feel good, and dont worry about him.. lol.. hope i helped

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(Rating: 4) Thanks...even though I have tried on top & he's tried on top nothing seems to work but last night I was trying to focus on something that turned me on..but it wasn't working..lol..but thanks for the advice
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