hi shelby, i'm elle. (:

you don't sound mean darling, you sound unhappy :[ and i want to make sure i don't sound mean to you, because i honestly just want to help. you seem stressed and it's hard for me to see anyone in pain.

so here goes my honest opinion/advice for you:

yeah, i totally agree with you that no one can say that you don't love him. "love" in general is really just a matter of opinion, and no one has any right to say that someone doesn't "love" someone else. however, i can also see why someone would think that you cannot love someone without really knowing them. image is abig part of all celebrity's jobs. to be successful they have to give their audiences an impression of themselves that may or may not be accurate. i can completely see how you could fall in love with his projected image though, he really does seem pretty amazing. i guess i just can understand both sides of the matter, and i'm sure you can too. i believe you that you love what you know and see of him, but i think it would ultimately be better for you if you'd look for a boy that you could actually be with. if nothing else, it would ease tensions between you and your annoyed family and peers, and it would probably take your mind off of daniel as well.

it may sound stupid and hard, but i promise it'll help if you give it a try.

hope this is helpful for you somehow, dear.

Thanks for the advice!

"An insomniac trying to make use of sleepless nights."

^^hahaha yeah that's just about what i'm doing on advicenators in a nutshell.


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