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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

15/F
at gym, we had to run 5 laps and i got out of breath.... i like running but i can only run so much, so i figured i should build up my stamina. i asked my mom if i could be one of those morning joggers, but she said no even when i told her i would stay on our street! if i run in the backyard, i have to dodge dog poop, trees, and my trampoline, plus i have to run in circles. i don't like running in circles.

i can't go to the high school track field everyday, and i can't join a gym or whatever.
how can i run everyday?
i really should do something to stay in shape, and i want to try running a little bit.
but where?

how can i convince my mom to let me run just on our street?

it would be so cool 'cause i have an ipod and i could use my moms athletic shoes.

what do i do

you can always go to the park, if there's one close to where you live. i get why your mom would be protecting you; you cannot know your neighborhood enough, you know? anyway. try going to the park. if you have younger siblings, you can get them to go with you, too, and they can play there with your mom or something. running on the street isn't the only way you can run. find places where there are people around, so there's a lesser chance of anything bad happening.

hope i helped.

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(Rating: 4) I totally get what you're saying, but the park near my house is really seclusive. Someone was found dead there a couple of years ago.... so I think the park is a no... lol.
Thanks for replying though
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