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Q: 15 f
my mom is so mean lately she comes from work and all she wants to do is argue. so lately ive been going out alot with m my friends, that bothers her!! all i do is go to their house i dont do anything bad! she always talks bad to me if i ask her a simple question she would just answer me so roudly. i cant take it anymore! so she always tries to find things to argue with me about. she told me i can never go out with my friends anymore. but seeing that tomorow is saturday my bestfriend invited me to go to her house and her mom also asked me to come. now i know my mom is going to say no. but what can i say or do to convicne her please help. i really wat to go to her house. i really need help. my mom is becoming meaner like every second. and i have tried to talk to her alot she doesnt listen and when i do try to talk to her she always gest mad and tells me that im changing or whatever. so please dont tell me to talk to her. i tried alot of times and it neevr works it just gets worse.
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I go through this all the time. Your mom doesnt want you to grow up. She wants you to be her kid forever and she realizes you are growing up but doesnt want to believe it. All mom's do it and they always will. If she wont let you go out dont become rash because it will just make the process of growing up worse for you. if she says no take it calmly and dont make it dramatic. She may not be fair she may even be rediculous but it doesnt matter she is your mom and what she says goes. I wont say try talking to her because that never works but just give her space because she probly has alot going on at work that she doesnt tell you about and its making her even more stressed. And trust me if you dont end up going there is next weekend. I have learned that one oh so many times. Just deal with her she's a big teenager who is filled with more drama and arguing than most real teenagers.

thansk for helping me great advice

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Courtney19
Hi I'm Courtney. I Love awnsering people questions and alot of my friends call me the therapist. But besides that my life practically evolves around photography and kayaking. I'm 16 years old and bound ready for life. I have had my share of heart ache and my share of drama. But i am more forgiving than most hard core christians. My family is difficult and when i say i know what you mean i truthfully do. I have been in a lot of hard places and have thought i was never going to get out and sometimes i think again i never will. I am open to everyone and will not push you away. I am not judgemental just because everyone judges me on the fact that my hair is about a inch long. I live in a very small town whith very ignorant people so i guess thats why i am the way i am. If you would like to talk i am always on myspace. www.myspace.com/c419420

thanks Courtney

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