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this may be a little long, but i really need someone elses inout. thanks in advance! ok, so my best friend went out with this kid that i used to like, but havent talked to in a couple years. they broke up in like january of this year, and me and him started talking again. and one thing led to another, and we both found ourselves liking eachother again. i felt terrible, because hes my bestfriends ex, so i talked to her about it, and she said shes totally fine and that she wants me to go out with him. she also told me to feel free to talk about him to her, because we are best friends. but whenever i talk about him to her, she seems wicked uncomfortable. so i said somehting to her about it last night, and she swore up and down that she was fine with it. for some reason, i think she still likes him, but she swears she doesnt, and she told him she doesnt. she tells me all the time that she wants me to go out with him becuase she thinks it will make things better becuase they fight all the time. me and him flirt all the time and talk online 24/7 and on the phone all the time, and we've made it very clear that we like eachother. even though shes fine with me going out with him, i still feel that she wouldnt be, even though i know in my head she is. and whenever we talk about going out, she always comes to my mind. i've decided im not going to talk about him to her anymore, but i dont know if i should go out with him if he asks me out. i know me and her will always be friends even if i go out with him, but i still dont know if i should. any input will help a lot. thanks!

First off , I want to tell you congratualtions to finding a guy that likes you the same way, and who calls you and shows you attention. FInding that mutual 'like' for each other is believe it or not...rare. Your friend went out with him, when you liked him. And Im not saying to do her the same thing, Its just that its what makes you happy (however within the confines of girl sisterhood) but if she says its ok, and you still feel uneasy,than I say that you wait until he asks you out, than have a final talk with her. Honestly if she is a good friend, she would see the chemistry you guys have, and how happy you are with him. Another thing, my final advice to you is that you probaly should not talk excessively about him, it might bring up feelings for her that she had for him in the past....believe me..it is really bad, and a bad friendship ruiner is when two female friends like the same guy. I hope I helped.

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(Rating: 5) thanks a ton. you deffinetly helped=]
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