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well I'm a VERY open minded person.I can have any random conversation with anyone.I like to danse and to have fun with friends.And I'd like to make new friends all over the world.

advice

ok. my problem is that when i like a guy, i make it way
obvious (not on purpose) by flirting with them and talk-
ing to them etc. and just making eye contact. i can't
help it. it's like a feeling of being noticed, sort of.

but i
only do this with guys i know i have a chance with. not
"popular" guys that i like. how do i stop being so flirty
and messing up my chances so quickly? it's like i start
digging him, and then i come on so fast like by flirting
and talking etc. that i feel like they dont like me.

how do
i take it slow, and not be so flirtatious all the time? +
please dont say "'it's okay to be flirty." cause i know it's
okay to be flirty, but i just dont want to be so flirty so
fast! and so much. help?

Well i suggest you start by trying to know them fist before starting acting flirty.and even thoug i think ITS OK TO BE FLIRTY [boys like that trust me i have 4 brothers!!=)] but if you wanna stop just go to them with the idea of being only friends with them..hope you dont flirt with your friends 8) hum but I think u just shouldnt go that straight ..and eventually wait until they come to you..its not always good for a girl to go after guys.
hope i helped!
Larissa:)

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(Rating: 5) it's hard for me - i want to get noticed! but thanks
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