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Hi, I'm a 20 year old lesbian and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 3 years. She's the first long term relationship I've ever had. I've been living with her for about a year and a half. She pays for everything for me, and the house is hers.
I'm the kind of girl who gets big crushes that last for months. But I never really got a crush on my girlfriend, I just started dating her because she seemed like she would make a nice girlfriend. So ever since we've been together I've still been getting crushes on other women. I haven't been with anyone else, but I don't know if I should just keep staying in this relationship just because we make a good couple. If I left then I'd have to move back in with my mom who is an even less tolerable choice. Besides, my girlfriend has been with me so long that she's gotten into the same habits and so if she left she might change, I might find that she was the best person out there after all, but then it would be too late.
Most of the time I don't even want to hug her and I don't know why. I really like her and enjoy being around her. Should I just stay in the relationship until I find someone that I do have passion for? (link)
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if you like her, like actully think there is something going between you then stick with it. but if you really dont see there being any chemistry or anything to look forward then dont keep dating her. you probably think of her as a friend now that you know more about her. dont worry about what other people think and how you look together, its if it feels right. you need to be true to your heart.
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