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14/f
so i have a boyfriend. of 3 months. i love him. and we have said i love you for about 2 months before we started dating. and he ALWAYS wants me to change, and stop talking to my best friend brandon. and he got REALLY pissed off cause when i went away for spring break i hung out with his friend rick, but nothing happened between us. i gave him a hug good bye and thats it. but we never told my boyfriend about it. and found out and now he thinks im fucking around. and he says were on break. and hes like we can still kiss and hold hands durring school. and im like whats break?

what are the standards for a break?
what are the standards when your my age for break?
advice please?

okay, you have made two serious mistakes. the first one was not listening to him in the first place when he told you not to talk to those other guys. you may say hes just being paranoid, but he isn't. the fact that you still talk to brandon even thought your bf asked you not to PROVES that you value your friendship with him over your relationship with your boyfriend. the bf is only being paranoid if you actually would listen to him (therefore proving you value him over the other guy) get it? your second mistake was agreeing to go on break. "i want to go on break" means that the guy wants to see if he can land somebody better, and if not, he'll come back to you. dump him STAT. and i suggest going out with brandon or rick. that's what you really want isnt it?

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(Rating: 3) brandon is my best friend in the WHOLE world. i have known him since 7th grade, and he seriously calls my parents mom and dad. now my boyfriend on the other hand i just met this year. so odnt tell me that noot stopping talk with brandon was a mistake
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