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Hey!
Im Sho.
I've been through lot in my 14 years.
I know a bit about divorce, relationships, Self-harm and mental health matters and death in your family cause I've lived through it all, and still battling with consequences of some of these.
I'm a regular girl who goes to a grammar school in the United Kingdom. I come from a big family - 7 kids. I voulenteer with Special needs kids - Autism and Aspergers and I know about these pretty well because of it.
I'm very into Paranormality, Randomness, Rock/Punk music, Quoting and playing my Clarinet and Guitar.
Hope to see you round (:
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Hi all, this is yg. I consider this a question, I am also kind of looking for opinions. I am asking here instead of the mod forum because I'd like answers from those who are mods, and those who may not be yet. There is no right or wrong answer, so please, honest opinions only.

In the last month and a half this question, or a version of this question has come up and it bothers me. 'How can I hide that I have been on advicenators?' I assume it was meant from parents.

I would like to know if others have this problem.

Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?

What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?

Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?

If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?

Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?

Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?

I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?

I think I have plagued you with enough questions for now. Thank you! :)yg

Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?
-I dont really hide the fact that I use this site. I don't announce it to people though.

What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?
- Some parents would be slightly put out that their child would get help off a website instead of from them. My mum and I get on pretty well, but there are some questions I cant ask her.

Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?
- Not exactly embarrassed, I minimise the page every time I leave the computer, but then I do that with all my sites. Its like, they're invading my personal space. They know me and they could read the help ive tried to give. People on this site, sont really know me, and I can be myself towards them and be honest.

If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?
- Questions that ive asked, because then some of them would end up with her thinking im mentally ill or something. Some of the ones asked would make me a bit awkard if shes reading these and thinking that im going to be getting ideas - im not!

Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?
- my answers really, because they're my honest opinion, and mum's tried to crush my personal feelings on many subjects, and there are some subjects that im forbidden to mention in my home life, but i can read and discuss them here (:

Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?
- No cause mum wouldnt have the time really, and my father ['it'] is about as useful as a chocolate ashtray and CAUSES most of my problems

I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?
- if i want to start one of those taboo conversations, I generally say that my friend and I were dicussing [whatnot] and id like mum to give me her opinion on

I'd like to ask also if you'd be embarrassed to look at the site with a parent IF they DIDN'T know you had a column here, and couldn't see what you've answered. They wouldn't know what questions you asked anyway..
it.
- If I didnt tell mum, then she wouldnt know about it, adn she'd ask to ee my personal part. If she was looking at it with me knowing id be 'urg, help!' it would be kinda strange. But if they wouldnt find your personal questions or answers, then i think it would be fine.

Your welcome (:
-TeenageGraffiti

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for taking time to answer! I loved the chocolate ashtray line. Gave me a good laugh! Wish your dad was more useful for you. :)
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