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sorry this is so long!!! i really really like my bf but hes the type of guy that dates alot of girls and i found out he cheated on one two. what i want to know is how do i make sure he never cheats on me or breaks my heart because the last bf broke my heart extremely bad.i really dont want to go through that again! so far its going fairly well and i kind of feel that he really might like me but im still afraid that its just a game hes playing( which by the way if he is hes playing it very well). he is probably the hottest guy ive dated and i really dont want to loose him so how do i make him see that im the type of girl that he can stay truthfull to? that im a girl he can keep. hes not in my grade so i cant keep my eye on him 24/7 so how do i make sure hes not messing with any other girls and esspecially in a way that he doesnt ever find out because i dont want to freak him out or make him think im a stalker. i just want to be with him for as long as i can. any advice will help. thanks for reading!!!
hey, well good relationships are totally based on trust. there really is no way to make sure hes not fooling around with other girls without coming off as a stalker or questioning him too much. however, you can question him if youve heard that he did somethng with antoher girl around. question him once or maybe twice, but dont harp on it. if you didnt hear anything and your just afraid of getting hurt, dont question him. he will feel like you cant trust him at all and that leads to big problems and trust issues. however, if saying something to him like "i really love you and dont want to loose you to another girl, so promise me that youll never hurt me". thats fine. if he sounds sweet and let he means it then your all set.
(Rating: 5) thanks