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Sooo..me && my boyfriend are engaged, and he`s grounded until may 7th..he turns 18 10 days later. i`m allowed over his house if his mom is home, but he works every friday saturday and sunday from 4-8. and my mom never wants to take me over there, she never will!! and he only lives 13 freaking minutes away!! neither of us drive, and even if we did get our temps, we`d have to have a parent in the car anyways, right??

like, he sometimes takes the bus, his mother rarely drives him anywhere, either. i`m scared that when he moves out, my mom won`t let me over his CriB, because it`s not supervised? i turn 18 in december..and we plan on getting married june 30th, 2008 ((my mom`s bday, just to piss her off))

my mom was talking about how my friend kayla is getting married this summer after she graduates, and she said it`s stupid. ((she doesn`t know that me and adam are engaged))

yea, he`s not allowed to go anywhere until may 7th, and even then. it will be hard for us to see each other..my mom is taking me today, but she`s really pissed about it, and she said never again..





help please??



Are you sure you're even ready to get married? If you still get grounded, and do little immatures things like have the wedding on your moms birthday just to piss her off, and go "&&" and "(( ))", it doesn't sound like you are mature enough for this step. But if you really think you are ready, just wait it out, or be more honest with your mom, try and act mature about it too. If you're turning 18 in December well then just move in with him, if you're getting married you need to be living together anyways. If he is still getting grounded at the age of 17, and you're not allowed to see your boyfriend or fiance or whatever it is, then maybe you and your mom have trust issues with this guy, try and work that out before you go and get married.

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(Rating: 3) well my mom barely knows him, so it`s not really a trust thing. the main thing is that she never takes me anywhere to see him.
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