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Over the past three years i've cared a lot more about my appearance than when i was in elementary school. I've always been skinny, naturally tan, and a pretty face. But lately i've been around guys a lot more, and i've heard and witnessed what they want in terms of girls.

While i've always tried to be skinny, the guys i'm close with are always checking out kind of chubby girls, thick girls, not necessarily with good feautures on their face.

And now i'm confused. Should i try and make myself look more like what i want to look like, or what guys seem to want me to look like? Because as much as i'd like not to change, i want boys to like me. Help?

DONT CHANGE. be who you are. honestly, do you want pervs looking at your big butt all day, or do you want a guy that likes you the way you are? dont worry about anything, guys go through stages all of the time and if you put on weight to make them like you, the next day they could be back to super skinny girls. find the guy that likes you the way you are, because he's the best. hope i helped :D

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