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Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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honestly, i think hes using you. guys say ALOT of of crap to just get in your pants. not to be mean or anything but by the way hes acting it sounds like hes gonna get some ass from you and then leave && treat you like shit. besides theres a huge age difference. i mean think about it if hes gonna go to college and your still gonna be in highschool. hes prob. gonna just like dump you anyways before he goes to college. sorry but thats just how it ussaully works out. and like. if your not ready then you shouldn't do it. your 15 for godsake. serousily. i wouldn't do anything that im not ready to do .. and you shouldn't either.
and if he really loved you then he would respect your decision. im sorry but like this stuff is drilled into my head because i know friends who have been through it and my dad serousily has drilled this shit into my head since i was like... 8. and you know what else.? thats like a serouis line that alot of guys use. like if you dont have sex with me then its over. come on. if he really loved you then he wouldnt dump you because you dont want to have sex. if he really loved you then he would respect you by not forcing it down on you. honestly, im just saying that im 100% sure that hes using you and that you should forget about it. sorry but its true.
and only say i love you if you truely mean it. im not saying that you dont love him, but just remember that.
pleasee dont make the wrong decission and have sex. im telling you, guys say that all the time like "baby i love you. your everything to me." just to get in your pants. i mean some guys really mean it but in this case with the whole sex thing, im telling you thats what he wants from you. i mean its been TWO WEEKS. thats really really rushing into things. it just sounds like he wants to "hit and quit". serouisly. im telling you. like i dont know how many times i said that but ahhhh.!
and if he really wants to be with you forever and stuff then cant he wait untill your ready to have sex if hes planning to spend the rest of his life with you? yeahh. im telling you and please believe me that he just wants some ass and then leave you. it happens all the time. and i know im saying it over and over but like ive just seen it happen so many times before and heard so many diffrent things so please please please only do it when your ready. and if he dumps you because you wont have sex. then honestly. hes not the kind of guy you want to be with.
for like the 17289471823 time. make the right decisssion.
best of luckk =]
&& hope i heled.
any more questiong ask.
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