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I used to hang out with these people.The used to gang up and bug me.I fought with the leader.Big mistake.They ganged up agaist me and fought.I miss being in their group.When I hear them having yelling and fun from my house i feel left out.I want to be a part of their group again but I do not want to look to desperate.I get really bored at home alone.I can't remember the last time I was invited to a party or had fun.Without social contact my state of mind has switched to bored mode.The other day one of them asked why I dont hang out with them any more.I haven't hung out with them for 2 years.Should I start haning out with them again

oh my god im so mad! i had a really good long response and when i killed send the internet stopped working and everything i wrote was gone!

ugh i really don't want to rewrite it like it did but here's what i suggest

be the bigger person and apologize to the leaders, even if its not your apology needing to be said. IM them and say it or do it by myspace inbox or over the phone but especially in person. then go to the person who asked you why you guys dont hang out much anymore and tell her why (without dissing the leaders or anyone in the group). maybe through her/him you can get back into the group.

honestly, if you just want to be in the group because you don't want to be bored maybe it's nor for the best. maybe finding another group to hang with who can be good friends is a better solution. however, if you really are there friends and they are your friends then go for it.

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(Rating: 5) thanks,but I wish you would re write your really good responce.
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