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I apologize if this is long. Well last week my friend claimed that she
told my crush that i like him and i thought o great he doesn't like me
and hes going to avoid me and stop talking to me. Before this happened
we would always talk too. Anyways he didnt avoid me, i did instead. i
stopped talking to him, when he would come my way i would turn around
and go the other, and when he would be around me i would completely be
turned the other way acting like he wasnt there or igonoring him. I was
doing that ever since today. Today was just different. He started
talking to me again. Here are all the details: I was walking up the steps and
there he is below me skipping steps and quickening his pace almost
trying to be near me i guess, then came this assembly and my friend and i
were walking out side and here he comes with his friend and we both turn
and the same time and make contact and whenever we make contact it just
feels so nice and warm and just great not cold or anything, as my
friend and i were walking he just starts running to be by me but like i said
before i was paying no attention to him but knew he was there, we get
inside and he was behind me all of the sudden and he was SO CLOSE to
sitting next to me when his friends told him to sit on the other side of
the building so he went. (once again i apologize for this being so long
but please answer my question)Lunch time: i still wasn't talking to him
and i go up to get a snack and once i get up there i see him come in, i
am in line and he kinda pushes me out the way kind of looking for
something but he didn't even look for what he was looking for and his hand
on my shoulder was nice and soft and stuff. Then outside he started
mocking me for no reason and teasing me. Toward the End of the Day: i was
getting my stuff from my locker and my locker is right by the door of
his last class so im getting my things and he walks out and starts
messing with me and tried to kick my locker closed and started hanging out
with this guy he has never met before and started mocking me like he used
to and always told me he did it because he liked seeing me angry. Then
i go downstairs to get my friend and hes down there and then started
mocking me again because i told him he scared me. Now the mocking and
eeverything from lunch to the end i started talking to him again but
should i? So thats is. Can you tell me what all this means please. Am i
wasting my time if he's just talking to me just to be flirting?? Thanks a
bunch!!

Stop ignoring him. He's probably getting annoyed because you are ignoring him. You like him you shouldn't be so distant. People like people and you shouldn't feel so mortified by it. I promise you that if you start making good and real conversation with him it will stop. I think because your friend told the guy you liked that you liked him you are making a big deal when he walks up the stairs or is in line at lunch. Just be cool and relax. Guys don't only flirt meanly they flirt nicely. What time do you think your wasting is the question... what have you done to make you waste your time? All you have done is like him so far. Just keep on being yourself don't get all tense about your situation.

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