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My names Shantae.. I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. I have a problem though. My parents totally hate him. He's 17 and he use to have a drug problem. My parents didnt know about it until I got really mad one night and spilled. Now, they dont want me anywheres near him. I'm inlove with this boy. When I see him the only thing I want is him to wrap me in his arms and hold me tight, i want him to tell me everythings going to be okay and he loves me more than anything. Right now, we aren't dating. My parents do not approve of anything about him, and I'm afraid that he's goin to leave me if we get back together because they wont let me see him, what do i do? Please give as much advice as you can PLEASE!!! :( (link)
i had the same problem, i am 14 and he ws 18, except my mom didnt know nor my brother, only a couple friends did and they were all against it, he used to be into harsh drugs...but told people he was over those....any way f*** my story i took time apart from our seceret relationship and started to notice this other guy, and lost my love for him, and let me tell you i did love him. and i felt bad because i had betrayed my brothers wishes to stay away from him let alone date him and i felt so shity, so please PLEASE just take this break and try and see if there is anyone else, i know you love him, but you never know he could lie and still be into drugs, atleast my guy was. im not saying dont go for him, because i know how you felt, love, i felt it to in a similar situation, but please try because love is blind, and because you love him you may not see something something huge important, so try to almost fall out of love for a minit and take a look around, and if you did love him it wont be hard to fall back into. also, if he is not a bad guy and missunderstood dont lisent to everyone else


Rating: 3
he got drug tested and it came back clear




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