about

I'm burningXstar (feel free to shorten that to any name you like!) i'm a student living in the UK, and as well as having a very mixed up life, I do enjoy trying to help others with their problems and woes in return for everyone elses much appreciated advice =)

I try to help people as best as I can, most of my advice is through personal experience, and experiences I have learnt through people around me. I consider myself to be a good listener, and tend to pick up on lots of little details, so hopefully this will also help me to answer any questions! I also study biology so if relevant I will use scientific data to back up any questions. However there are always going to be some things I honestly know nothing about! I will not give half hearted answers to these questions! Therefore I will only answer questions I can put all my knowledge and effort into.

My realm of topics still varies, hence why I haven't listed any "main catagories". But if you have any questions feel free to ask me for any advice and I promise I will reply! =)

advice

Well. Me and my boyfriend of (9 months.) have a serious jealousy problem. No big. It's just that he doesn't go to my school, and he doesn't want me talking to guys, and it's okay cause I don't want him talking to girls. He wants me to prove it to him that I don't talk to guys. He wont believe any of my girl friends, cause he doesn't like any of them. Oh well. I don't hang out with them anyways. But, anyways. He wont believe if people tell him I don't. I just need a way to prove it to him. I'm sorry this doesn't make any sense. I know it doesn't, but I need advice. I need for him to trust/believe me! Help please. :]

Jealousy isn't good. The main thing in a relationship should be trust, your bf should trust you to be able to talk to guys and not lead them astray or do anything that would reprimand your relationship. But you too should also trust your bf to be able to do the same with girls. How can you possible be in a secure, steady and realistic relationship when you are so confined to another person's rules and regulations of who you can talk to... I suggest you have a nice long talk with your bf and sort out what you do and don't trust in each other... Its okay to be jealous sometimes, but jealousy shouldn't restrain you from talking to other guys... If you are unable to trust each other in daily life, you may never be able to trust and depend on each other when it matters most.

[view]

(Rating: 5) thanks.
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker