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i like this guy at school and we've kind of talked here and there, but i really like him alot but i dont know how he feels about me, should i go and talk to him or be clueless the rest of the year?






First, I believe you need to firmly establish what you want out of this guy. Do you want to like him and have him as yours, or do you want to like him thinking that he's safely and securely out of reach for you, making you safe? Establish what you want out/from this guy in a relationship form friendship, boyfriend, etc. However, from the way you sound, it sounds like you want a relationship with this guy. All I can tell you is that you will really be able to tell HOW MUCH you Really WANT this guy, if you were to tell him your feelings. Also, you'd suprisingly be able to learn a lot about yourself that you never knew yourself. If you're not intending to tell him how you feel, then it's a waste of time and setting yourself up to get hurt. You can never tell if someone likes you or not through casual talk or talk in general, trust me I was in your situation and I confronted my guy thinking his signs were positive,but he just wanted to be friends. Hopefully your charms are more powerful than mine. I still think you should go for it so you really know where you stand. Don't ever let the fear of rejection stop you, you see what you want, go get it, be a go gettah! Hope I was some help.

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(Rating: 5) thanks your advice really helped.You made me think is he a person a want to go out with or just someone i think is cute(hes a HOTTIE!!!)LOL.But yea thanks for the advice

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