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Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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Im 14/f and he is 15/m

Well, lately My boyfriend and i haven't had anything to talk about on the phone. It seems like we have drifted apart. We have been going out for 5 months and 9 days. I love him, but im not in love with him. He has a low self esteem and thats a major turn off for me. Just because me and him are so different. But, i dont know what happened? I mean this just started getting this way. And we fight constantly about the most stupid things ever. And every little thing he does annoys me like crazy. And he'll get mad over little stuff. And to be honest he acts like a girl. Always whining and getting upset about something. I dont want our relationship to end, but in a way i do. But for now since i am in doubt, i thought i would just get advice to see what people think about this. And i guess i kinda just dont want to hurt him anymore.

i dont know.. any advice would be nice =] (link)
i was in this exact situation about a year ago. my guy whined and complained and acted like a little girl, it was pathetic. at first i didn't want to talk to him about it and wanted to try to work it out because it was almost prom and he had already paid for me. but a few days after that i talked to him and said that i didn't feel the same connection that we used to have. he agreed but said he still loved me which made it hard for me because i didn't really love him anymore. i ended it so he wouldn't be dragged along in a relationship that wasn't working. im not saying that you should end the relationship, deffinately talk to him first but in the end you might find that breaking up is better than being in a bad relationship. hope i helped, these situations are hard.





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