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So.."Tom" and I were going out for a little over two years. It's been on again, off again. He comes from a "tough" family, as do I, but in completely different ways. His mom's always swearing at him, and lowering him, as if it's no big deal. Now he's taken that attitude toward everyone; including me. I can't stand it, but I understand that it's not necessarily his fault. I DO love him, no matter what, but I don't think he feels the same way. Everyone says I can do better, but it's him I want to be with, and he "says he wants to be with me too"..This time, we've broken up though (I broke up with him)- and it hasn't just stayed a few days, it's been about a month and a half! Anyways, about jr.prom, I said I realllly wanted to go with him, but he wont go, because he says "hes gonna hate the music, not wanna dance, and be completely bored". I don't understand why he won't just go with me, for one night, to make me happy. I've tried everything to convince him to go; saying all my friends were going so I really wanted to be apart of it, and that i only get ONE jr. prom, etc..he said he would take me next year (for sr. prom)-he also said that both proms were going to be exactly the same- but I talked to older people, and they all said "i should go, because I only get one JR PROM"...Anwyays, other people want me to go with them, but I know Tom would be FURIOUS,and not talk to me for a LONGG time,even though he won't go with me.. I'm afraid of not going and missing all the fun prom stuff, (even though I COULD just go next year), to stay friends/ prolly go out with Tom again in the future, or I could just go with another guy, and call it a night!
HELP!

F/ 17

I say make him SUFFER. Go with another guy and you should DEFINATLY go!! Don`t let this one boy stop you! If he REALLY loved you, he would do ANYTHING for you, especially some dance. Also, you never know if you and this Tom guy are still going to go out! Make him jelous and go with some other guy. ;] So if he RLY loves you, he`ll meet you there. GO HAVE FUN!!!

Hope i helped and OMG YOU bettER let me kNow whAT YOu do hehe

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(Rating: 5) Hey!
I think ur the same girl that made me laugh for my other question?...
Yea, im def. goign to follow ur advice..
Listen to this, ive been calling him, (just to talk) all weekend,and hes been ignoring me, because of all this highschool drama shit (that didnt even happen).. he thinks i was talking about him behind his back.. whatever (i wasnt).. so yea, after him ignoring ALL my calls.. i went to the mall with my mom tonight, and WHO do i see..???? (it was late, and the mall was closing in like 5 minutes).. but TOM and HIS dad (and lil bros)..!!!!.. His dad smiled at me, and was like, heyy hun.. and Tom looked the other way and didnt even say hi. OUCH! gotta believe, that hurt! I was upset, but tried not to show it..but if he cant even say hi, screw him!
ur right, if he really loved him, he would just go for me! I GUARENTEE you he wont be there tho, but ill keep ya posted :-)
and if he even thinks about BRINGING another girl.. i dunno. ill be pissed
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