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There's this guy that I like and I've been sorta with him today and saw him yesterday cos we happened to go out to the same place last night.
Well anyway, I get the feeling that he's one of those guys who has lots of girls liking him and also that he probably likes the chase. So to stand out I'd like to be a bit mysterious so I'll seem different than all those other girls that are falling over him. So he'll be intrigued and want to find out more about me.

But of course I don't want to seem like I'm totally not interested or really quiet, so I how do I retain an air of mystery and make him intrigued?

Get the guy by being sly and seductive, and playing hard to get a bit. NEVER ever act desperate around a guy. They hate this; it's a major turn off. Make him chase you. No exceptions. Ever. This doesn't mean not flirting though--hint you like him by complimenting him occasionally and giving him your best "come hither" (non-creepy!) stare. Practice in the mirror if necessary. Don't let anyone know you like a guy until you're 100% positive he likes you back. This means not even telling your best friends. If everyone hears about your crush and he ends up not returning your affection, people will think less of you.

Hope I helped!

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