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Missa8305
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Theres this boy, Jake, who is one of my best friends, ever. I love him, but he doesn't like me. I'm almost positive that he likes my best friend Jenna, who likes him. It hurts, but I love him and I just want him to be happy, even if its without me. But i'm afraid that she's going to hurt him. his ex girlfriend hurt him really badly last year, and im afraid that it Will happen again. I really, really want him to be happy, but i'm afraid that jennas feelings for him arent really that deep, or that its just a little thing that she'll get over. I really dont want to see him get hurt. (link)
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I would go up and talk to him too, tell him you dont want to see him get hurt, and you just want him to be happy. If unfortunately he endes up going out with Jenna, try to remain friends with him. If he does end up getting hurt, make sure you are there for him. He will remember that in the future and you should eventually get what you want. Your question sort of sounds like the timing isn't perfect for you and Jake, so just wait until the timing is right for you two! If Jennas feelings really aren't that deep, I would guess that it is (or will be) a quick little fling.
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