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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

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13/f, kinda popular.
so i am desperatley in love with this guy
i have liked him since last year. we have been pretty good friends. my friends have told him alot of times about me liking him but he just ignores it. my guy friend is friends with him and tryed really hard to get us to go out but he didn't. then this girl asked him out and he was pressured to say yes because everyone new she asked him. then a couple weeks later he broke up with her and said that he never really liked her and that she was annoying. i kinda stopped liking him during that time but now i sit by him in science and fell for him again. i no i can never forget him so i really need help. i cant just go up and ask him to go out with me because i am really shy with guys, but i have talked to him as friends. a school dance is coming up if that helps. i really need your help asap! thanks in advance!~

that's perfect. i've had this happen to me. i fell in love with my best guy friend. it wasn't easy. i ended up asking him out, but he rejected me. you should ask him to go to the dance, if he's not really a go-to-dance person. MAKE him go, if he really doesn't wanna. just make sure he goes. then, when he is there, ask him to dance with you in a slow dance. just talk to him. easy-talk, you know. like, "hey. how's it going? you liking the dance?" blah blah blah. it's one step to being closer with him, even for 3 minutes. before and after the dance, you should keep talking to him. get to know him better, be a better friend, since yall are already good friends. you should wait, though. since you know that you like him, it's up to him to feel the same to you. if you ask him out at the wrong time, that might be the end of that. and you can't really afford that right now. if he asks you out, and you don't like him anymore, it'll give him something to think about - why he never asked you earlier, etc. just wait. patience is the key. yea, very cliche, but it's true.

hope i helped.
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