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my bf and i have been going out for 2 months 2mrw, and i love him to death. he sends me these messages telling me how much he loves me and how he was never truely in love until he met me. well him and his ex gf went out for about 8 months and then they went through a big break up. some how they remained friends and "best" friends at that.even though im not particulary found of her,(i have never met her, but talked to her on the fone), i don't care that they are friends, i don't want to be one of these gf's whose says that he can't be friends with her because shes his ex. but she calls him all of the time talking to him about how she madeout with this 19 year old guy when shes 15 and all this stuff that she can go tell her girlfriends, and she asks him all sorts of personal questions about us, like how many times have we made out (like we count) but anyways its driving me nuts and i don't want him to think that im jealous, i just don't kno wat to do about her????what should i do?????thanks for any help that you can give me (link)
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Ok... This happens all the time... But trust me, if you let him know how you feel, he will not think that your jealous or anything. Why dont you start like this...After getting into your usual conversation (When you're hangin' out with him),"...Baby, you're the best thing that's ever happened to me......Hun, do you, like, tell 'people' about us? Like, about whatever we do? Ok... because I dont want people to know intimate details about us...what we do is really special to me and I dont want other people to know about this and spoil it? Can you please not tell people about us...For me??" And try and not talk about his Ex.... Conversations between you and your bf are supposed to be about you both & people who really matter to y'all...And I dont think that his ex matters to you or him...
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