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okay well im set that my dad is cheating on my mom. these are the things that lead me to beleive that.

1. when we first got our sprint cell phones, he only got me 500 text msgs a month because he said, "if you need to tell/ask someone something, just call them" and stuff like "texting is stupid" "its so pointless" yatta yatta. but i was cool with it. well i went over twice and he said "if oyu go over again, you get your phone taken away" then like yte next day, he texts me and says he got me unlimited and he unblocked texting from his phone, so now HE could text. i was like... okay?? but COOL. then one he was texting like CRAZY and i was just like "who ya text'n" and he was like "NONE OF YOU FREAKIN BUSINESS" and he like, hisd his phone. and he talks on it every night when my moms not home and when i ask, "who ya talkn to?" (real casually) he freaks out and says "WHY DOES IT MATTER?!?!"

2 he says he need to go to the grocerie store and i was like "okay" w/e. and i asked him to get me some peach tea. he was gone for like a hour and a half but i though "oh he's probably buying a bunch of stuff" you know? but he came back and the ONLY thing he had bought was my peach tea... i was like "wow. that took forever. and all you bought was peach tea?" (cause we are like low on food, and i had nothing to eat) and he got all defensive and was like "JUST CHILL OUT, OKAY?"

3 he always talks crap about my mom behind her back. little things that dont even matter. they are pointless. like we are talking about something that has nothing to do with her and he'll bring up somthing bad about her and go on raving about it.

4 he's been late coming home from work lately

5 i know this seems gross, but they never like, kiss or flirt with each other anymore. and im pretty sure they dont have sex. (ew, but a necessity in a relationship)


so idk. what do you guys think? its freaking me out. omggg. and if you think he IS, what do i do????? i am so helpless. do i tell someone. who? do i talk to him about it??? gaww im so lost. ):




thank in advance.
xoxo (:


ps. my parents have been separeted MANY times before and devorced twice but got back together both times.

It sounds kind of sketchy, but he might not be cheating on your mom. They might just not love each other anymore...which is sad to think of, but if they have already been seperated before, the feelings just might not be there. I hope everything works out!

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to your comment- i think you should maybe try and talk to you dad...and if he gets angry and says " It doesn't matter", be like "Well Dad, I am sick of your secrets, i just want to know the truth." Tell him how you feel...and if he doesn't want to have the conversation with you, talk to your mom about it.

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(Rating: 4) thank you... (:
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