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Im 20 years old, im engaged and getting married this july. and im a virgin. i am TERRIFIED of the thought of having sex. my fiance says he will respect my feelings, but it just really scares me. i dont kno what to do. i love him so much, and the idea of sex, like connecting with someone because you love them so much is nice. but im terrified of the what happens. i know that probably sounds ridiculous to a lot of people, but i could really use some advice.

Thanx

Hi. You probably shouldn't feel rediculous about this topic. Some people are ready to have sex at different times, such as 9 years old to 90 years old. Well, you know. Different ages.

You should not be ashamed, you will be ready when you are ready.

That is a really good thing that your fiance respects you, that is a good attribute in relationships. He will wait.

Don't pressure yourself to have sex when you don't want to, or are afraid to. Then, you might end up even more scared than before you did it!

However, you can (if you want) look up the facts of sex and what happens. Ask your fiance, friends, family, professionals. Maybe knowing the facts and what you are supposed to feel will calm you down. Fear is the unknowing. Get in the know!

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(Rating: 5) fear is in the unknowing..i think i will take your advice.
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