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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things.

advice

I put this question to mental health cause it is messing me up.
Whats with all those 12 year olds wanna have sex? And whats with them 15 year olds suggesting they should go for it?

This was the question:
havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her

can i still have sex and get my period ?

This was my advice after the feedback I got:

DAMN NO.
If you didn t have your period yet it means you are 14 years old. And 14 year olds having sex is Gross.
Your friends mom can do as she pleases. She might be a skunc, just cause she did it it doesn t mean it is ok to do. Probably your 23 yeard old weirdo boyfriend told it to you so he can convince you to allow him to pop your cherry.
Do as you please.

This is the feedback that I got:

no my bf is not 23 and i was just wondering im not even thinking of having sex i was thinking like what if i never get it at all then maybe i could have sex when im married and im not 14 im 15 ! THANKS FOR NOT HELPING BITCH !

This I added after the feedback:
Well thanks for harassing me and calling me a bitch and all, you are only making a fool out of yourself and letting people know how immature you are. Are you even aloud to be on this site?
Anyways, you are being totally unfair, you are just mad cause you didn t hear what you wanted to hear wich is "u go gurl, u r ready whenever u feel like it". Well fine, shoot your self up and look where you heading.

I complained countless times to the administrator, but he seems to be asleep or something. Why wont my rating change? I know people get banned when they rate a one. I never asked the girl to get banned, just to change my rating but unlike others, I am not afraid to admit that
""""Yes, ratings are important for me""""

Is there a place in this site where I can complain and actually get heard or even some feedback?

Also I really believe that some administrators are overusing their powers here in this site. I wants got banned till Friday, bitched about it
and then it changed till next Friday.
It seems everyone can call me a bitch and get away with it, while I cannot even point out to someone that he did something stupid without getting banned. Notice I said "someone did something stupid" cause I never called someone stupid.

i've complained and had my feedback raised. your answer was really immature, and it showed that you were judging her and making assumptions. your answer would not have helped anyone, ever. plus, there were so many things in it that were wrong.
lets just start out with the facts: you said, "if you didnt get your period yet it means youre 14." wtf? why would that make her fourteen? she could be younger, she could be older. i know a few sixteen year olds who havent gotten it; why do you "know" that she's 14?
then, you assumed that her friends mom was a what? was that supposed to say skank? first off, the girl didnt say HOW she lost her virginity. you never know, she could have been raped. that wouldnt make her a skank, not at all. also, there are people who lose their virginity when theyre younger, and they dont get messed up. doing what she did could have been good, it could have been bad. even if it WAS bad, everyone makes bad decisioins sometimes, and usually they learn from them. if i were to lose my virginity before i was, say, thirteen, am i automatically a skank for the rest of my life?
okay, and THEN you say that her boyfriend is probably 23? why? guys reach sexual maturity when theyre around 13 or so. they want sex then, not ten years later.
and, you assumed that she wanted to have sex. she didnt mention ANY intentions of even considering sex in her question.

then, after her feedback, you say "thanks for harrasing me"? you do realize that you just called her and her friends mom a skank, convinced yourself that she was 14 and had a 23 year old perv boyfriend, and decided that she MUST be planning on having sex?
and THEN you ask her if shes even allowed on this site? why on earth would she not be allowed on this site? and thats not rhetorical, i really, REALLY want to know. PLEASE leave it in my feedback.

YOUR RATING WONT CHANGE BECAUSE YOU DONT DESERVE ANYTHING HIGHER. YOURE JUDGEMENTAL, AND YOU HONESTLY SHOULDN'T EVEN BE GIVING ADVICE.


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"She hasn t got her period yet, therefore she is young."
i know plenty of older people who are older and don't have their periods. She even told you that she was 15. My cousin made it to seventeen before she got it. I didnt get mine until i was thirteen. There was a good chance that she was allowed on the site.

"She is asking if it is ok for her to have sex, therefore she wants to have sex."
what?
she wants to know if her period will get screwed up if she has sex before it comes. so she was curious. i;m not saying this is the case, but maybe she'd even been raped, or afraid it was going to happen. its not likely, but its always possible.

and please, PLEASE tell me why i am being judgemental.
i told you the facts, i pointed out all the possibilities.

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(Rating: 4) I didn t call call her friends mom a skank EVER. I said, she might be a skunk. As if I was saying she can be whatever she wants, just cause someone does it, it does not mean it is right.
Example: Just cause she is using drugs, it does not mean its right.

She hasn t got her period yet, therefore she is young.

She is asking if it is ok for her to have sex, therefore she wants to have sex.

Harassing me, did you see her feedback?
Allowed on this site. If you took the time to read advicenators rules, you are allowed to this site only when you are over 13 years old.
12 year olds wanting to have sex...am I the only one who is freaking out with the idea?


Also you are calling me immature for being judgemental. Exuse me but... you are being judgemental too.

Rating changed by L2 mod due to changes made.

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