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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

heyy, okay well im 13.
i really like this boy in my class and last year in 7th grade i thought he liked me to. i mean we started to become really close friends last year and i had a feeling that something good was going to happen. but then school was over and the summer started, i saw him a couple of times and we hung out a little but then in 8th grade [he was in most of my classes] he just became very distant and started hanging out with a different set of people. we still talk but it's talking like we just met and i still like him. what do i do? how do i rebuild the friendship that we had?

this just happened to me. feels really crappy, doesn't it? knowing that you can't even talk to your friend the way you used to? yea.
well, good thing is, you still talk. even a little is good enough to start with. just talk to him more often. since you have enough classes to talk to him at, take the advantage. he might be feeling the same way, if you were really that good of friends.
in my experience, what i did was to just come up and talk to him as much as possible. it was VERY AWKWARD, and you can't help that. but ever since then, it just kept getting better and better. talk about what you used to talk about. maybe say something like, "remember that time when ....." bring back old memories. funny ones, mostly.
act like you like him, but don't make it too obvious. be a little more flirty towards him. he'll get the message, i'm sure. if not, well, there's always confrontation - just tell him you like him. but, through personal experiences, don't do that unless it's the last resort. telling a friend your feelings for them doesn't always help your friendship. so just keep talking to him. it's better than acting like strangers with each other. if it was as bad as it can get, it can only be better from now on.

hope i helped!
if you have any other questions or whatever, just message me!

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