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Hey I'm Elizabeth. I love to dance and i consider myself a very mellow person! I am into EVERYTHING! I love: Classic Rock, music, reading, action pack stuff such as hunting (everything a guy likes), Sports, I love watching sports.ETC if you're soo interested in me.. then why don't strike up a conversation with me! : )Anything you like..i'll probably learn to like it as well..


HAVE ANY PERSONAL QUESTIONS..FEEL FREE TO PERSONAL MESSAGE ME ON HERE AND I WILL TRY TO RESPOND AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE.
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My parents recently got seperated. I feel like everything is falling apart. Both of my parents aren't eating very much anymore and my mom is showing some strong signs of depression, nothing suicidal though. My mom has started "re-inventing" herself. She's cut her hair short and highlighted it red and got a tatoo of a butterfly on her lower back. When I asked her about it, she said "I'm not a caterpillar anymore." My sister came home from college for spring break and basically avoided everyone the whole week. I saw her for maybe 15 minutes the whole time. I haven't been sleeping in the last couple of weeks. I've been staying up until 2 and waking up at 7 and have been unable to nap during school or anywhere else(which I usually do if I stay up too late). All of this, alongside my obvious dilemma of parents getting seperated, is just crashing down on me and I can't really handle it.

I don't expect all of my life answers to be solved, but does anybody out there have advice to help me get through these times? (link)
Wow, funny i should say this but I have a personal love one in my life.. that has depression too. Lets just say this.. my parents are getting a divorce and yes, it is not the brightest of the brightest colors.. meaning: Your life isn't full of happiness possibly.. it sounds.

You need your personal space and i can't function during the day. Sounds like you have ALOT on your mind. To tell you the truth.. I am going through the same exact things. I am a bit depressed myself. But maybe possibly you could go to a counselor? I personally can't sleep at night b/c i have to much on my mind and a loved one in my family is highly depressed... I went to counseling and and they suggested an anti-depression pill. Or some kind pill to relax my nerves. With all this commotion in your life. You may be quite confused and don't know how to handle things! Cheer up!
Do something you personally like. If your sister is being an ignoramus.. b*^ch.. then possibly try to open up to your sister! Maybe your sister doesn't want to be caught in the middle with everything. Thats how i feel.. with my parents divorce.. I want to stay neutral as possible! I have an older brother.. that is feeling the same way.. but he doesnt avoid me.. He feeds me with advice.. SO maybe possibly you could try to open to your sister and give us each ADVICE!!

Hope that helped!


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Thank you. I talked to my counselor this week, and I am getting better. But I don't think I am so bad as to take anti-depression pills. I'm a very anti-pill and medecine kinda guy. But Thank You so much, really. It helps to know I'm not the only one going through this.




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