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ok my boyfriends friend just died. liek i have no idea what to say to him. i feel so bad

A time like this I don't think there really is a "right" thing to say. All you can do is be there for him and let him come to you if he needs to talk. Don't force conversation or sympathy down his troat. Often people try and do that thinking it's the right thing to do, when infact it's the worst thing they could do. Take him out to dinner or a movie, try and get his mind off of things, and DON'T bring up his friend until he does. Sorry for his loss;

-Adorkable

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