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Q: ok, im 14/f.
my parnets are racist and always have been. my sis and i are the only ones out of 6 people in our family that dates out of our race. my ? is how can i get my mom into getting to know my black bf???? holla at ya snowbunny lata/./.
abby aka Az
Honestly no matter what you do they arent going to change their ways. They think what they are going to think and they are going to say they are older than you and they know whats right.
Have you ever asked your mom what is her reason for hating black people?
She probably was raised this way...
What i am saying is Dont throw your boyfriend into the mix because it will just complicte your relationship with your family.

yea i know. i have asked her and she said "just bc i do" she was raised like that, but everytime my bf calls she will yell at him and tell him not 2 call bac n say the meantest things. then turn around n tell me she hates me and wish i would die just bc of the color i date.... its hard, but we r still 2gether. i dnt get along with any1 in my family except my sis holli. Az 4 lyfe

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