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I usually joke around with this buddy of mine. I mess with him, he laughs, and it all goes well. But today I was joking with him as usual, and he all of a sudden got really mad, called me horrible names, like I am a horrible person (and other innapropriate things). I am sure what I said wasn't offensive. It's the same thing I similarly say every time I talk to him, and every other day he laughs about it. He did say he was having a bad day but he took his anger out on me. So he is mad at me, while I am just slightly mad at him. He really hurt me, but I am worried if I talk to him I will make things worse for our friendship. Should I just let him cool off for a few days, or try talking to him (with the risks involved)? I don't want to lose him as a friend, but he really hurt my feelings.
Any advice?
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let him cool off for some days...he just wasn't in the mood for jokes....and you have to respect that...maybe when he is better you can tell him he hurt your feelings,and i'm pretty sure he'll say sorry...
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