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Ok so i have asked about this before but i need to ask again and this time with more detail ok i'm 13/F in eighth grade and a while ago i was sitting in one of my classes and this guy i really like let's call him bob lol was sitting behind me and his friend next to me so his friend whispered to me and asked if i would go out with "Bob" and i said no because i thought he was probably joking but then "Bob seemed kind of upset and then a couple weeks later i was walking out of that same class and another two of "Bob's" friends asked me if i would go to the valentines dance with "Bob" this time i told them i would give them the answer later and they asked when i said at lunch but then i never answered them and to this day i still dont know if they were joking or not because i am way way to shy todo anything and i have had 2 people ask "Bob" if he liked me and he has said no both times and that the person who asked them were stupid now my alot of my friends seemed to think "Bob" liked me because like in one of my classes with him i left the class and he was like where's Julie where's Julie (me) also because they think that his friends wouldnt ask twice if they wernt serious but i dont think he likes me but like sometimes i can catch him looking at me and he looks kind of upset when he does and he always looks away if he see's that i saw him looking at me and i'm really confused as to if he likes me or not because i mean he's kind of sending mixed signals i guess and i really like him a lot but i'm way too shy to do anything also i'm not usualy the type of girls guys like so i seriously doubt he likes me but i would still like you opinions please and thank you in advance

okay well yes bob most defenitley likes you. and my guess would be that the only reason he said no to your friends when they asked if he liked you was because you had said no to him so many times. but from what you said im 99.99% positive Bob likes you. so stick with your gut and if you decide you like him too go for it. and next time, if one of his friends ask you out again, tell them " why doesn't he just ask me" instead of saying no. because if you say that, it's basicaly you saying , "yes, i like bob, and do wanna go out with him, however im not sure if you guys are trying to be funny or not"
good luck!
hope i helped!
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(Rating: 5) ok thanks alot i really appreciate it and i've asked alot of people if they think he likes me and they have all answered yes but i just dont think he does aaahhhhh this is so frustrating i mean i'm not saying that everyone who thinks he likes me is wrong and i'm right but yeah i just dont think he does anywho thanks alot i will tell how things work out that is if they work out and also i have another question since i have already had two people ask him if he likes me i think he's prolly annoyed by it but i really like him and really want to know and i dont think his friends are gonna sk me again so like how could i like ask him with out him being annoyed and howelse can i show that i like him i mean like everytime i see him or hear his voice my friend said i smile alot and get this look in my eyes like i really like him so she said it's really obvious and like i might feel more comfortable telling him i like him or talking to him about it or writing him a note if he wasnt gonna show his friends but i think he probably would
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