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Q: my parents are way strict. i hate it. they`re asian, that`s why. my dad doesn`t really know anything, but recently, my mom found out that i`m friends with a few gangsters and i`ve been sneaking around hanging out with them and stuff. &she found out that THEY were the ones driving, not parents. now she won`t let me hang out with them. idk what to do. cuz i`m good friends with them. &i want to hang out with them. i hate her. she`s so controling. what do i do ?
this probably isn't what you want to hear, but i'm going to be honest...

she's probably "controlling" because you were sneaking around with gangsters. um, hello- last time i checked parents didn't like hen their kids snuck around without their permission. to me, this just screams "trust issue."

and i'm pretty sure being asian isn't the only reason. have you done things like this in the past? have you done anything else that would make them distrust you?

put yourself in their shoes- they just want what's best for you, i promise. but if you still think they're reasons are unjustified, then sit them down and have a talk with them about your feelings, and then ask them if you could have a chance to show them your responsible and make desicions you think are right.

i tried that. it didn`t work.

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heyimcaro
hiii! i'm caroline. i'm eighteen years old, and just started my freshman year of college. i have a magificent boyfriend who i love more than anything. we've been together over three years. he's also my best friend. speaking of which, my other best friends are also pretty fantastic. another huge part of my heart is devoted to god. he's blessed me with so much more than i deserve, and even though i fall short on a daily basis, he's still there for me, every step of the way. i'm a pretty simple girl- i love anything fun, texting, being outdoors, swimming, playing soccer, frisbee, or watching football, spending time with my family, and most of all- living my life to the absolute fullest.

to be frank, i'm not going to answer your questions about girl drama or pregnancy, because i have no experience in either of those categories, nor do i want to listen to you whine about how "we didn't use a condom" or "she's such a &*^#%!!!!". however, i'm totally open to anything else. drop something in my inbox and i'll get to it pretty quick- i'm quite the net nerd (:

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