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Q: One of my so called best friends
- I dont want to be friends with her anymore.
I'm sick of her always talking as us as a "we" and that "we suck" "we are stupid"

because i dont like downtalking myself.
she can, but not about me.

dont tell me to telll her not to talk bad about herself either becauase this isnt the point.

SHE loves drama and stupid crap like that,
so she will do anythign to cause it.
she plays the victim all the time.
I'm sick of it, how she always thinks shes right.
What do I do?

I can not stand people that live for drama. I know friends that feed on that crap! It sucks having a friend that annoys you constantly but you don't know what to do. I think that the best way to do it, is that the next time she does something that makes you mad, just ignore for a while and she'll wonder why. When she asks just tell her your mad at her and your sick of her doing those things. If you let the fight last long enough then, you won't have to deal with her and you might not have to be friends with her anymore. OR, instead of not being friends with her, she could change. (I know a lot of times thats SO no likely, but, hey, if she really wants to be your friend, she would do it.) But to the point: If she's a horrible friend, and she's just weighing you down, then don't waste your precious time! She doesn't sound like the type that's a good friend, you don't need that. She's not worth your friendship if she doesn't stop doing these things that bother you!
BEST OF LUCK:) hope I helped!