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okay.. so im 15/f and my boyfriend 17/m got into a fight last night. see we have been together for a little over 5 months. we have only got into 3 big fights, counting this one.
last night we went to the movies, and then we hung out at his place. i was in a sad/bad mood so i didnt really talk to him all that much, but i got over it and we started talking, then had sex. Well, he has this game on his phone that i like to play.
&& his birthday is next month, and i was going to have a surprise party for him, i told his best friend, so i looked at his texting to see if his friend told him anything about it. and i saw that his friend asked if he was with me and my bf said yea, shes being the usal bitch. i mean, i didnt do anything to called a "bitch". i told him i wanted to go home and on the way home i was crying and stuff. then i got home and we got into a texting fight, and i told him i would never call him any names like that, and then today he was saying how i dont appreciate the things he does for me. and i said im sorry that you called me a bitch and i had sex with you. and he said that he told his friend that before we did anything.

well really theres more to it then that, but i cried all night and today.. am i over reacting?.. i mean i never had a boyfriend that does the things my boyfriend does for me. hes so sweet, and i do notice the things he does for me. i might not show how i love him, but i do, im just really scared of getting hurt like i did in the past... what should i do to show him that im sorry?... or should i even be sorry?

he should appologize... he has no right to call you a bitch behind ur back espically if he said "usual" because that means that hes been thinking that for a while... he needs to have told you how you were acting and confronted you about you "acting like a bitch" and not his friend so he needs to appologize and talk to you aobut it... then you can appologize and say hey im sorry for acting that way if you thought i was ill try to not do that again.. but it really hurt when you said that about me because i think the exact opposite of you..... so maybe just talk to him about that... but he should appologize first/ be chasing after you...

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