well what can i say...
I'm from Virginia, an am 17 years old. i enjoy long walks on the beach, candle-light dinners, and lying about liking both.
i hope i can help a few people. if i can just help one, I'll consider my being on this site worthwhile. I can't necessarily guarantee that any advice i give will instantly help, and i won't promise that what i say will make you happy. i can however promise that what i say will be truthful, and that it is what i believe is the best course of action for you.
Website: my myspace
E-mail: nathan.pollock@verizon.net
Gender: Male
Location: good ol' RVA
Occupation: ice cream scooper
Age: 17
AIM: wsl607
Member Since: October 20, 2006
Answers: 32
Last Update: June 28, 2007
Visitors: 2653
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Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
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Oh yes, babies are cute.
however, once you have one, your life is over.
everything you do will have to revolve around your kid.
you will have to feed the baby, bathe the baby, take the baby to the doctor when he/she is sick, watch the baby constantly, and make him/her happy 24/7.
you will have no more time for anyone or anything else.
no more shopping sprees at the mall, no more going to the movies with friends, because you will need all the money you have for taking care of your kid.
also there's school. you'd basically be done with it. and without a good education, neither of you will be able to hold a job that pays enough for you to be able to raise a child and keep yourselves alive.
oh and babies don't stay babies forever.
chances are if you have a kid now, he/she will grow up with totally screwed up lives seeing as they more then likely won't get the care they need.
but if you want to deal with all that by all means, have a baby. after all when you can finally get one to be smiling and laughing, they are quite adorable.
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