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Q: Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\
Babies are cute and adorable - and eventually I want one too.

But guess what, they are a lot of work.

Can you financially afford the baby?
Do you have your own health insurance?
Would you be able to finish school successfully?
Are you emotionally stable enough to take care of another child?

It gets old and boring and tedious caring for your own kid 24/7. You get the 3 am feedings, the sickness and you won't like it.

Get your baby fix another way - work at the YMCA or volunteer at the hospital.


great advice thanx :)

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