Member Since: February 16, 2007
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Last Update: March 16, 2007
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Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
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think about the fact that everytime you walk down the street, people will look at you in disgust at the fact a 14 yr old has a child of their own at such a young age. Your not going to be able to live a sociable life when you have a child. Friends tend to lose interest when there's a kid involved. If your thin now, you will gain weight and you may not be able to lose it again. Think about the fact that your boyfriend is not ready and that you will risk losing him altogether if you go against his wishes. You will be taking away his freedom. If you love him as you say you do, then put him first. You rchild will grow up and eventually it will work out that you were just a kid yourself when you had him/her. They will be very embarrassed compared to the age of their friend's parents.
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