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my names kayla, i am 15, i`m turning 16 this week, on the 22nd. i am pretty young, but i`ve been through a lot more than most girls my age have so i find it easy to give advice. i do my best to answer every question. and if i offend you, or give you an answer you aren't happy with, feel free to be totally straight forward & give me some feedback. :) hope i can help you!
-kayla

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iv have big trust problems ever since my ex from like 2 or 3 years ago has cheated on me multiple times. and now ive been going out with this really great guy for over a year and i still have trust problems. i always think hes going cheating on me or if he stays an hour late at work hes doing something. i also hate it when he looks at half naked chicks on tv because i get jealous. can anyone help me become... normal?

i have the same problem. i`ve been cheated on plenty of times by my ex. i havn't met anybody new but i`m sure i`ll be dealing with the exact same issue you are once i actually do. i think you should sit down with him & have a talk. explain to him that in past relationships you'd been cheated on, and you have a hard time trusting him. be sure to mention that it has nothing to do with him & ask him if he could just have a little patience & help you overcome this fear of being cheated on. about the "half naked girls on tv." issue.. just try & ignore it. all girls feel that way. i know i do. when you see a good looking guy on t.v you don't sit there obsessing over it. guys are the same way. they might think to themselves "oh that girls hott" but they aren't sitting there comparing you to her. if thats what bugs you. So make sure you talk to your boyfriend about this whole trust thing, & hopefully you two can figure out a way around it.
i hope i helped!
-kayla

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