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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things.

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I am 14;f and my boyfriend is 16;m. We are doing great, and I am in love with him. He has alot of other friends that are girls and same with me & guys. Recently one of his older "girl friends" asked him to go to prom with her. I trust him 100%, it's just I don't know her, and I don't trust the other people at the highschool.

I don't want answers like, "just talk to him about it" because I don't want to seem like the green eye'd monster. I just want to know, is it bad to be jealous of him going to prom without me? Any answers are greatly appreciated.

It's not that bad, as long as you dont let the jealousy consume you. And I know you said that you didn't want to talk to him, and that makes a lot of sense. But maybe bringing it up would be a good idea, i don't really know exactly what the situation is. You could even talk about it online, just to make sure that it's not just a misunderstanding.
just be like,
-so youre giong to prom with chelsea?
-i guess, she asked me
-oh, okay...
-why?
-i don't really know,... i was just wondering.



but honestly, i don't know enough about the situation, so the scenario above could really not work.


bottom line, it's fine to be a little jealous.
don't worry about it.

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much. The senario is that he is in band, and one of his really close band friends asked him to go with her. He re-assured me that she is no competition at all. I think he knows I am not really "ok" with the idea, and he has offered to not go. But he was excited to see all his friends, and dress up. So I told him he could go anyways and have fun.

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