Gender: Female Location: New Jersey Age: 16 Member Since: February 18, 2007 Answers: 53 Last Update: May 16, 2007 Visitors: 6090
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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP. (link)
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I think I can relate to this question more than any other. Don't force something just because you think you need someone by your side, you already have friends there for you. Hang with friends. And try talking to guys and get to know them more and maybe when they get to know you then something may spark. Don't rush into something because you may end up regretting it. I know this sounds stupid because I feel the exact same way about getting a boyfriend. You feel like you are just as pretty as everyone else except they are the ones with a guy at their side. Just remember that you have friends that love you and that you've made it this far in life without someone. All I am trying to say is be more outgoing and get to be good friends with some guys, afterall the best relationships start from a friendship. And you are strong enough to not need someone next to you. I think about this a lot and I have figured that if something is going to happen, it will, I don't want to force something that may not be as good as what might have been if I waited. Well, I hoped I helped and if you need to talk more just let me know.
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